I was recently sitting in a church lesson when the teacher asked:
“What have you learned from trials in your life?”
People were sharing some really powerful and beautiful responses.
But… I noticed that everyone who commented was sharing the “big trials” in their lives.
The dramatic, heart-breaking, life-altering trials that taught them dramatic and life-altering lessons.
Now while I’ve had my fair share of “big trials”…
Most of my life is made up of “small” afflictions.
Monday mornings. Lack of sleep. Bad attitudes. Lists of things to do. Small miscommunications with friends. Frustrating situations with a kid.
We are promised that God “. . . shall consecrate thine afflictions for thy gain.” (2 Nephi 2:2)
Of course, the big trials can be so transformative.
But can God consecrate the small (but many) afflictions for my gain, too?
Am I going to use my kid having a meltdown as fuel for my frustration OR as a way for me to practice my patience and love?
Am I going to let my to-do list add to me feeling overwhelmed OR use it to practice prioritizing what matters most?
Am I going to let my miscommunication frustrate me and fester OR use it to practice love and forgiveness?
I’ve learned that a lot of it has to do with my decision whether or not to accept that my Heavenly Father will dedicate these mundane trials for my ultimate benefit!
I am in control of how much I let God into my life.
“Whatever the cause of your sufferings, your loving Heavenly Father can direct them to refine your soul.” -Anthony D. Perkins, Oct 2021
Yes, the big stuff.
But also the really normal, messy, frustrating, repetitive, draining little stuff, too.
When I choose to consecrate and dedicate it all to Him, I start to realize He is ready to help me learn and benefit from anything.
Happy Studying!
-Cali Black
