Comments on: Am I ungrateful?

By: Susan Reed

Susan Reed — Mon, 06 Jul 2020 00:14:18 +0000

One of my daughters was born with a birth defect undergoing major surgery when she was 2 days old. The nurses thought I was a cold person bc I was cheerful and not crying about what could happen. I was at total peace. I knew she would be okay, that she would survive and thrive, that God’s will would be done. She had 3 other major surgeries and always healed well , lots of adaptations, social issues, sadness and tears, but ultimately she’s thrived. She’s never let it hold her back or keep her from trying new things. She came to us with a tenacious and positive spirit. I’m so grateful that I let go and let God (His will be done). She is such a blessing to our family.

By: caliblack25

caliblack25 — Sun, 05 Jul 2020 19:41:49 +0000

In reply to Susan. Thank you so much <3

By: caliblack25

caliblack25 — Sun, 05 Jul 2020 19:41:23 +0000

In reply to Joan P. Lofters. Thank you for your kind response! It kind of makes me excited sometimes to think about all the awesome things that he is going to do in spite of the difficulties he will have. He’s a pretty special kid already, that’s for sure! Thank you <3

By: caliblack25

caliblack25 — Sun, 05 Jul 2020 19:40:08 +0000

In reply to Michelle Wolfe. Oh I’m so glad you commented! That’s awesome to hear! I love hearing positive stories. And I’m so glad it has no affected you too much. It’s so hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that people can still see well with their eyes moving all over - but that’s what people keep telling me! I’m excited to see what Barrett is able to do. Thank you so much for your comment!

By: caliblack25

caliblack25 — Sun, 05 Jul 2020 19:38:05 +0000

In reply to Erika. Yes, I can totally relate to all of those thoughts! It can seem selfish or ungrateful. But absolutely, there are some blessings He will give us if we just ask! Or, He wants to hear our desire and then know we’ll submit anyways. Great thoughts! Thank you!

By: caliblack25

caliblack25 — Sun, 05 Jul 2020 19:36:49 +0000

In reply to Betsy Carlile. I’m glad you clicked, too! Thank you! <3

By: Betsy Carlile

Betsy Carlile — Sun, 05 Jul 2020 17:17:03 +0000

In reply to Joan P. Lofters. Loved this! Glad I followed the link to read it all! You’re wonderful!

By: Erika

Erika — Sun, 05 Jul 2020 17:06:42 +0000

I have struggled so much with this same thing. I have a testimony of prayer and that God answers prayers. I believe he can and does guide and direct me. But when it comes to those occasions regarding a person’s health, I struggle. I don’t want to go against Gods Will so sometimes I think, “why bother?”. But that is not what Christ did. There are times when our desires are not in accordance with his will. And times when they are. And I think there are times when God’s will can be a bit flexible. In the parable of the Lord’s vineyard, the Lord planned to cast down the trees but when the servants pled for him to spare it a little longer, he agreed.

Thank you for your insights!

By: Michelle Wolfe

Michelle Wolfe — Sun, 05 Jul 2020 16:56:27 +0000

Hi Cali,

I want to thank you for you openness and honesty about what you are going through. It is so important that we all learn this important truth, of praying for the righteous desires of our heart while accepting His will, especially now, during these times. I also think it’s important that we be able to share our trials with others so that we may be better able to help one another.

I would also like to let you know that I was born with the same thing. Doctors told my parents that I would never be able to read, catch a ball, or drive a car……. all wrong. I have lived a normal life, even with my poor eyesight, as I fully expect your little boy will too. We learn to adapt without even realizing it, not really knowing how anyone else sees things. I am still sometimes asked what things look like through my eyes, but it’s all I’ve ever known. I think I see things the same way as others, things do not jump around or move just because my eyes do.

May the Lord bless you and your family in immeasurable ways always.

By: Joan P. Lofters

Joan P. Lofters — Sun, 05 Jul 2020 15:48:41 +0000

Cali, the first thing I wanted to say was, “I am so sorry.” As I thought of that in the context of “Thy will be done,” I realized that when we submit to the will of God, it always works out to what is best for us. So how can we be sorry for the trials and challenges we face? Barrett was a very advanced spirit before he came to earth. He will not need a perfect body or eyesight to accomplish what he needs to in this life. It is his extra challenge a loving Heavenly Father knew would bring great blessings to him and his family. I know you know that.

Thank you for the wonderful insights you bring to light as we study come follow me. I know you will be alright as you and your family move forward and learn from the experiences given from a loving Father and His Son, Jesus Christ.