It’s been so hard for him to hear recently, his doctor confirmed he had hearing loss due to fluid in the ears, and so we knew this was the best step.

All my recent interactions with him have included me talking very loudly and slowly, and him yelling, “What?” about a million times a day.

When we came home after his surgery, one of the first things he said to me was:

“Mom, everything is so loud!”

I told him it was because his ears were now working the way they were supposed to.

He insisted, “No, like I’m hearing things I’ve never ever heard before. It’s all so loud and there is so much sound.”

He has had no idea what he had been missing out on.

It’s a whole new world for him with ears that have now been opened to hear.

I thought about how often I’ve lived my life with my spiritual eyes closed.

Completely unaware of the divine hand, the blessings, the literal miracles that have surrounded me because I just am not willing or quite able to perceive yet.

The prophet Balaam thought his donkey was being stubborn and disobedient.

Until…

“Then the Lord opened the eyes of Balaam, and he saw the angel of the Lord standing in the way”. (Numbers 22:31)

The trouble with our spiritual eyes and ears being closed is that we often don’t even realize it.

We think, “This is just how life is! Normal. I’m on my own. Solving my own problems. Dealing with normal things.”

Until something happens to wake us up and we choose to look and see.

And then a whole new world opens up to us.

Walking with Jesus. Guided by His Spirit. A life filled with constant miracles of all sizes. Communication and divine love everywhere.

Once we see it, we don’t want to go back!

How has the Lord helped you open your spiritual eyes to see His hand all around you?

Happy Studying!

-Cali Black

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I had been asked to play a musical number for the Saturday evening session of our stake conference.⁣

And I was SO NERVOUS.⁣

I knew this hymn arrangement super well and it was completely memorized. ⁣

But I kept messing up!⁣

Each time I played a wrong note, I would pull the music out and practice that part over and over. ⁣

And then I would completely butcher another part that I had always played perfectly. ⁣

I focused on each individual note so hard. ⁣

Day after day. ⁣

The stake conference was approaching and I was honestly embarrassed. I thought I had this piece memorized flawlessly, and yet here I was thinking about every single note and messing up in random spots. ⁣

As I sat down discouraged to practice one last time, a thought came to my mind: ⁣

“Invite the Spirit and play your testimony.”⁣

I put the music away, closed my eyes, and started playing. ⁣

But this time, I tried not to think about any notes. ⁣

I just thought about the message and the Spirit that I hoped to share as I played. ⁣

And I played it perfectly. ⁣

I realized later that I played it perfectly BECAUSE I had stopped worrying about all the details.

I had stopped harping on every single mistake that I made and making it a super big deal. ⁣

I just got to the core of why I love to play the piano— because it helps me bear my testimony of God and light and hope. ⁣

Isn’t this true in regular life, too?⁣

When I try to follow all the rules perfectly and feel overwhelmed with guilt every time that I mess up, then I notice mistakes even more.

Things get even worse. Even messier. I can’t fix it all. ⁣

I need a good dose of that simple but powerful lesson Moses tried to teach the Israelites with a brass serpent: ⁣

“Every one that… looketh upon it, shall live.” (Numbers 21:8)⁣

It’s too simple. ⁣

We just have to love Jesus and God and invite the Spirit to be with us. ⁣

That’s all. ⁣

And when we do those things with our whole souls, all the rest of the little details fall into place.

Happy Studying!

-Cali Black

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“I’m reading my scriptures each day, so why am I still struggling to be patient with my kids?”⁣

“I followed that very specific prompting, so why did that friend start pulling away from me?”⁣

I’ve thought these questions, and many more like them, at various points in my life.⁣

Basically, they are all a form of:⁣

If I’m being loyal to God, why aren’t the circumstances of my life awesome?⁣

The Israelites were really good at looking at their outside circumstances. ⁣

And when they looked at what they had physically been through… boy, was there a lot to complain about. ⁣

“Would God that we had died in the land of Egypt! or would God we had died in this wilderness!… were it not better for us to return into Egypt?” (Numbers 14:2-3) ⁣

They had endured so much since leaving Egypt, so wouldn’t it have been better to just endure the hard things they had to face in Egypt?!⁣

Why did life seem to be getting harder and more difficult, even though they were following the Lord and the prophet? ⁣

Oh children of Israel, I can relate to that question. ⁣

And this is why I love studying the scriptures. ⁣

Because from far away, I can see the answer that the Lord wanted to teach the Israelites. ⁣

It seems crystal clear and obvious. ⁣

And then I go… “Oh yeah. Duh. He’s doing the same thing in my life, too.”⁣

God doesn’t want us to measure the success of our life by our circumstances. ⁣

He never has, in Old Testament times, New Testament times, Book of Mormon times, and modern times. ⁣

So why would I think my life would be the exception?⁣

Boom. I love studying the scriptures for this exact reason. I see the PATTERNS the Lord has worked with for centuries. ⁣

Why does the Lord care if we keep His commandments with sincere intent?⁣

Because He cares about the journeys that our hearts take. ⁣

Are we becoming more devoted? More dependent? More likely to align our will to His?⁣

That’s what a successful disciple’s life has looked like, dispensation after dispensation. ⁣

He wants to see where our hearts go and what they become.

Happy Studying!

-Cali Black

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Sure, they complained about it. ⁣

But they still ate the miraculous manna from heaven. Every day. ⁣

“Manna” is usually compared to the “daily” gospel stuff we are asked to do. ⁣

Prayer. Scripture study. Pondering. Service. ⁣

If we use this analogy, then technically, the Israelites WERE doing all those things each day. ⁣

They LOOKED like they were obedient!

But what was their attitude about it?⁣

“There is nothing at all, beside this manna, before our eyes.” (Numbers 11:6)⁣

They had completely lost their GRATITUDE for the daily miracles.⁣

They interacted with God so consistently that they forgot to feel grateful for the interactions.

So are we forgetting how miraculous it is to have scriptures?⁣

What a miracle it is that we even have access to these ancient texts?⁣

What a miracle it is that we can be taught and guided by their words?⁣

What a miracle it is that we are able to approach the God of all the universe in individual prayer?⁣

Here’s what I’ve found:⁣

When I remember what a miracle each of these daily touch points are, I can’t help but feel overwhelming gratitude. ⁣

And when I feel that gratitude, I am more likely to actually study my scriptures or say my prayers. ⁣

Gratitude is a beautiful motivation to interact with the divine each day. ⁣

I am grateful for all the ways I get to connect with heaven each day.

Happy Studying!

-Cali Black

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