I think it’s always a great idea to ask someone you are inspired to serve what they really need, and then make a plan from there. Other times, a spontaneous act for someone might be exactly what they need but didn’t realize. If we try to follow the promptings of the Spirit, we will be guided on how to best serve those around us. <3

Happy to help 😉

Here are some of my thoughts:

If someone from church asks for help v. someone outside of church asks for help, do I “owe” more to the church member because he/she is a church member?

Just because someone asks for help, should I give it? In your example, how much food does someone really need at the birth of a new child, and does it always really help? Perhaps something else might be more helpful, such as providing child care to other children, or cleaning their home or doing the dishes?

How do I determine if someone asking for help really needs help? Is that important? Is that something I should do?
It’s clear in scripture that the Savior doesn’t appear to have answered every plea for help, nor did He give to others what they asked of Him. How did He do it?