My favorite leaders haven’t been the ones who have pulled off the most perfect events. ⁣

My favorite leaders haven’t always been the most organized. ⁣

My favorite leaders haven’t necessarily made the best executive decisions. ⁣

My favorite leaders haven’t always been the smartest. ⁣

My favorite leaders HAVE strengthened me. 

They’ve known me. ⁣

They’ve cared about me and reached out to me. ⁣

They’ve taught or presented or trained on things that I really need to learn in order to become a better person. ⁣

The focus isn’t on them. ⁣

The conversation is always on others. ⁣

I’ve had bishops, Relief Society presidents, and Young Women leaders who have strengthened me. ⁣

I’ve had bosses, principals, and team leads who have strengthened me. ⁣

“Therefore, strengthen your brethren in all your conversation, in all your prayers, in all your exhortations, and in all your doings.” – (D&C 108:7)

I don’t know that everyone agrees that this is what makes a good leader. ⁣

But to me, it makes sense. ⁣

The ultimate, real, true purpose of us being here on earth isn’t to learn how to become the most efficient person we can possibly be. ⁣

It’s not to become that leader with all the charisma and fame. ⁣

It’s not to lead the biggest empire. ⁣

It’s to love God and then to love others. ⁣

It’s to take the strength we get from knowing our standing with God and to turn that around and spread it to others. ⁣

It’s to teach and build and share. ⁣

It’s real servant-leadership. ⁣

It’s the type of leadership Jesus Christ showed while He walked the earth. ⁣

Real leaders strengthen others. ⁣

Who has been a leader who has strengthened you? 

Happy Studying!

-Cali Black

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  1. While reviewing my own life experiences with various leaders over the last 60+ years, I have reached the same conclusions as you. Thanks for your valuable perspective.

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